Definitely comfortable shoes - if you don't have ultra wide feet since I would say that these fit medium but are super comfortable.

I attached a picture. Hope it helps.

No. I worried about the same thing. I wear an even larger size than you, 10 (although in other shoes I'm usually a 10.5-11) and they don't look mannish. The place where the laces start may make your toe-area appear longer than in other shoes, but it's really minor and you get used to it. They're actually narrower than you might expect, they don't look like I'm wearing a pair of mens shoes at all. I love them.